Well, I went out and pulled the motor again this morning.
Getting better at it - only took me 1.5 hours from beginning to end this time - last time it was more like 2 hours.
I parked the wipers where I wanted them (by cutting the power, not with the switch), I pulled the drive wheel, checked to make sure the pin was on correctly, changed the wheel position a little, reassembled, and... Well, I'll give detail first!
First thing I did was make sure the Park Ring and Crank Pin were correct relative to each other.
My belief is that the Drive Wheel Crank Pin's got to be 180º from the park notch in the park ring to park on the left. Thankfully, this was already true, so I didn't have to risk ruining the wheel in an attempt to fix it.
I then located the numbers on the Drive Plate (numbers 321) directly over the park pins. This meant that the notch in the Ring was located over the fingers, in order to park the wipers there, and the wipers were stopped where they were to be parked.
So, with the internals of the wiper box all where I thought they should be, I reinstalled the motor. Just as I finished doing that, I decided that, if I ever have to do it again, I'm going to glue the little nylon washers onto the bottom of the wiper motor... They're such a pain to hold in place!
Eventually got it done. Turned the car on... Nothing.
Forgot to hook up the power.
Did that, and...
Success!
Initially. Sort of.
Wipers parked exactly at the bottom, just as you'd want them to.
They also parked 2/3 of the way up the screen on the upward sweep.
I left the car, typed most of this post, went back out, and failure.
The wipers are now only parking just before the top of the sweep, they're not parking at the bottom at all.
At least I can confirm one thing - if you short pin 1 to pin 6 through a momentary switch, you can give yourself a single push sweep of the screen.
So at least that small part of my plan is working out...
I've got photos, everything except how to disassemble the plastic gear/drive pin/park plate. I do plan to try and do up a 'How To' sort of thing, condensing all the info from this thread into a single resource. But I can't really do that until I've proved that I have half a clue, and that won't be proven until my wipers are parking at the left.
Can anyone confirm the way the park ring is supposed to sit relative to the crank pin? I've got them 180º offset from each other. I can't see why the wipers are parking where they're parking - it makes no sense to me.