For a sense of conclusion, I just wanted to post that the job is now complete as of yesterday afternoon!
There was much sweat (in the 40C heat), blood, and near-tears throughout the entire project. We were very careful not to strip any bolts this time, however one of the timing chain cover bolts was already stripped, so we had to buy a different bolt & nut to replace it. It worked like a charm.
I'd like to say everything went on (and off) without a hitch, but that would be too simple. The radiator didn't have any rubber grommits on the bottom shroud when we took it off, and putting some on during reassembly caused some issues with the fan hitting the shroud. A few taps and bends in the correct places has (almost) solved the problem, and she runs quietly now.
The timing chain doesn't rattle anymore, which is a big relief. The mini even seems to run smoother than it did before.
The little spanner that fell inside the clutch-housing came out, but not without more blood and sweat. The bolts are *almost* impossible to get to, except by those with small hands.

When it finally came out, there was much joy and celebration.
We took the mini for a little spin down Anzac hwy last night, and I'm looking forward to giving her a clean-up inside and out, she's very dirty at the moment!
Very special thanks to Paul at Mini Tech Motors, and to all the help and advice from everyone here at AusMini!!
Marty & Manda