i allways love oil discussions
first of all i am using syntetic oils since my first mini without any problems. syntetics are better than minerals, they can cope with more pressure and heat.
sure, the a-series is happy with a good mineral oil but it won't die if you use syntetic. and the gearbox has no problems with syntetic.
with syntetics you may find the engine runns cooler and stays cleaner.
but you have to compare the right oils, you can not take a mineral 20W50 and compare it with a 5W30 syntetic. the syntetic will probably still outperform the mineral in pressure and heat but it can't give the right viscosity when hot.
and by looking at the viscosity, it says nothing about the qualitiy of the oil just how it flows at given temps.
if you engine starts to leak with syntetic its not because of it attacks the gaskets, it just removed some of the dirt that tried to seal. or you used some "thinner" oil that went more easily through the existing non-sealing gaskets. with new gaskets there shouldn't be any oil dripping, no matter if mineral or syntetic
to find a syntetic thats good with classic cars you just have to look at the specs (but you have to ask the manufacturer as they are not printed to the bottle) and to know what your engine needs
after all, the best advise is: if you are happy with the oil you are using, stick with it